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Accept you ever been in attendance at a wedding that you knew would end in disaster? One where the helpmate was cold, the groom was bored, and arguments popped up left and right? Was what was supposed to exist the "happiest day of their lives" littered in red flags?

If y'all take been to one of these dreadful celebrations, you lot know the pain of silently watching two people throw away thousands of dollars on a relationship destined to fail. Most people aren't willing to speak up when the officiate says "speak now or forever hold your peace." However, there are some alert signs so obvious it's hard to imagine the bride and groom didn't see them coming themselves!

If your bride throws a glass at your caput, that's probably a good signal to call off the wedding. If your groom is yawning during your wedding vows, that's probably a sign that you should probably end things right there. Still, these experiences and worse have happened at many nuptials ceremonies that somehow continued on to the painful end.

These folks decided to share some of the most awe-inspiring "these people should never get married" moments they've experienced at catastrophically awkward and agonizing weddings for our enjoyment. So, enjoy!

Non The Best Way To Kicking Off A Marriage

My friend was getting married to his neighbor. I hardly knew her, didn't know he was into her, the hymeneals was rather sudden.

They were both from very religious families; she had gotten pregnant later they were intimate once in "a moment of weakness" and their families pressured them into the marriage. At the wedding, they barely looked at each other, they argued (though with plenty gustatory modality to exercise information technology quietly and away from most guests) over several details, and the bride got very inebriated (had I mentioned yet that she was pregnant?). The baby was born with dark pilus though both my friend and his married woman were blond. The Dna test confirmed the infant wasn't his and they divorced less than 6 months afterwards the union.

Well, This Is Super Awkward

The bride wouldn't stop hugging my married man, who, unbeknownst to us, was her "outset truthful dearest." He thought they were good friends, all HER friends knew that she was in love with him and were shocked that he showed up for the wedding. My husband was clueless. She was clinging to him and crying. It was horrible and nosotros bolted every bit shortly as possible.

2nd Time Is Never The Charm

They had carve up up a couple of years previously because he didn't know his own limits and got violent. When they reconnected years later, information technology was on the agreement that he would never sip again.

I found him chugging spirits behind a bush at their reception.

Thank God They Chosen This Off

My niece was 27, a top-tier lawyer, a beautiful woman, and marrying a thrice-divorced 42-yr-old who has a somewhat mysterious ways of support. He was a very attractive man, seemed aloof, and her parents were gritting their teeth; they didn't like the guy. We flew in the mean solar day earlier the wedding and after the rehearsal party, I had a few minutes lonely with my niece. I have always been her favorite aunt. All I did was enquire her, "are yous sure you want to marry this man?"

The floodgates of emotions erupted; she started bawling, she wasn't sure, she didn't know what to do, she hugged me sobbing. I calmed her down, got a glass of wine in her and she told me that about a calendar week ago she had an epiphany and she realized this guy was not right. Just at present she was agape to back out with all of the money, travel, planning, etc..

Long story short, we had a midnight coming together with her parents and she called off the wedding. Yeah, it was very difficult, the groom's family went ballistic, thousands had already been spent by the guests and my sis, but all of the people close to her were relieved.

Dang, The Least She Could Do Is Smile

My best friend since middle school was getting married. He is actually good at piano and singing, so he wrote a song and sang information technology to his wife at the reception. He was super nervous but he killed information technology. EVERY woman was in tears, it was such a lovely song…

Except for the bride. Stood right next to the piano with what I interpreted every bit a forced grin. The attending wasn't on her for 5 minutes…

Divorced two years later.

At present Is Not The Best Time For This

When the best man's speech talked most how much he was in love with the groom, how they had been together since long before she showed upwardly, and if at that place was any truth, justice, or beauty in the earth it would take been the ii of them being married.

Not Much Room For Imagination Here

The groom spent most of the day running around like crazy making sure everything was perfect, whilst the helpmate spent a lot of time (and shared knowing glances) with the best human.

Come up On, Don't Do That To Your Guests

It was raining outside (in Southern California, no less) and the groom was in the hallway screaming and yelling at the bride that they would still have the wedding out in the rain. She kept saying over and over, "we can't practice this to our guests…" and he refused to dorsum down. We were there for several hours while this went on and all of usa awkwardly hung out in the reception area listening to the echoes of the statement.

That Certain Escalated Chop-chop

The groom looked bored throughout the entire wedding. He fought back a yawn during the vows merely everyone saw it. He was with his best human being the entire reception and barely sat down with her. A month afterwards, the helpmate found out he was sleeping with his ex and really was with her 2 days before the wedding ceremony. He actually invited her to the hymeneals and she saturday at a table just smiling while she knew what a cheater they both were. Nasty divorce.

If Relationships Are All About Trust…

The nuptials couple came to see me virtually a calendar month in advance of the ceremony to choose music for the occasion.

They couldn't agree most annihilation from the processional to the recessional, and everything in betwixt. She wanted the organ to be soft equally she entered, and he wanted the organ to exist large and "triumphant" (his words).

On the actual wedding ceremony day, long before the event began, he came upward to the organ with his best human being and offered me a "tip" if I'd do information technology his way and play a big organ piece instead of the softer, smaller-scaled entrance she preferred. I told him nosotros needed to honor what had been agreed upon and not alter information technology at the 11th hour backside her back.

Holy Smokes, This Guy Is A Disaster

Information technology was a disaster from the start, although it was the most extravagant wedding I have always attended. Well over $100,000. Cocktails earlier the reception and the groom was smashed. I of the brides' all-time friends from out of town complimented him on how great his eyebrows looked and he replies back with "WTF are you trying to say most me?!" Then he tries to kick her out fifty-fifty though she was just beingness polite.

Afterwards that fiasco, he keeps going and it was time for cutting the cake. So normally you simply cut the cake and possibly rub a piffling into each other'southward faces. Nope, he baseball game pitched the cake direct into her face up. I'm not exaggerating, everyone went completely silent. The bride runs out of the reception tearful her optics out and her father follows. Her brothers beginning to get in his face but it was quickly calmed downwardly. Once she returns, the groom decides information technology's fourth dimension to make an apology over the mic. Y'all can approximate how much of a disaster this turned out to be. Incoherent nonsense.

Every bit the nighttime is catastrophe, the groom is outside with her brothers and dad trying to fight all of them. Yup, the marriage was annulled the very next day.

Then I'm Guessing The In-Laws Are A Nightmare

The parents' speeches. One side was a heartfelt, tender acknowledgment of the couple and how they had grown with each other through the years. The couple had been high school sweethearts who married in their late 20s.

The other side had what felt like a 10-minute oral communication on how wonderful their son was, with very picayune acknowledgment of the bride. Was very ane-sided. Struck me as odd.

God, All That Work For A Wiggle

All of her Snapchats and social media photos in the last weeks leading upwardly to the wedding were of her running effectually doing every last errand, staying up until 2 am finishing decorations, making all the final phone calls and organizing stuff while he watched sports. So on the weekend of, she was running around setting up everything while he got tipsy with his groomsmen in the hotel for the entire twenty-four hour period earlier the nuptials (it was a destination wedding so everyone was in that location a day early). He was so hungover that he almost missed the nuptials. His vows were a single judgement and hers were uncomfortably intense and long-winded near how she "loved him more than life itself" and "he has her whole soul now." She had prepared thoughtful surprise after surprise for him during the reception (which again, was uncomfortably overkill), while he wouldn't even aid her prepare his own wedding ceremony.

Probably Shouldn't Have Gotten Her Boozey

My married woman was a bridesmaid at this nuptials. I videoed and was going to edit the footage together for them. After the nuptials and drinks, the wedding party went to the couple's favorite bar for more "jubilant" with the core group of friends. Few more hours of sipping and the bride was and then inebriated, and the truth started coming out.

She started trashing the groom and anyone else that got in her way (my wife included). She ended upwardly calling her ex-hubby at ii am and telling him she had made a huge mistake (I took the telephone and told him she was tipsy. He understood). The nighttime concluded with u.s.a. shoving them in the limo that was supposed to take them to their hotel and hoping for the all-time because we were all sick of information technology.

Then, Why Did They Get Married Again?

Leading upwards to the wedding, he didn't call her his "fiancee." It was similar he avoided the term or something. He likewise didn't fully change his accost to their new place, and just really moved in with her considering she insisted.

The biggest red flag, though, is how much he complained about her in subtle ways and overt ones, regarding the same exact sets of issues that (shockingly!) didn't resolve upon marriage.

This Is A Super Foreign Duo

Heavy involvement with the church potent-handed an old pair of friends into getting married. They were fresh out of college and had been together since centre school. The bride was very distressing and mellow on the day of the hymeneals. She was physically there, but mentally checked out. Exasperated sighs, forced smiling, and feigned excitement, I understand being a blushing bride doesn't compliment everyone's personality. She even paused walking down the alley with a expect of sheer panic, but was "guided" by her shortly to be father-in-law. The groom, on the other mitt, was serial-killer calm. He was ushering people in calling them "coach" and "judd" and it was strange. His vows were almost like a comedy sketch alluding to their colorful differences. At the reception someone discretely mentioned to him that the bride was crying and he scoffed, insisting it was probably because her special mean solar day is almost over. Information technology was also rumored he picked up a catering waitress.

Gosh, That Poor Groom

The groom flinched every time she moved her arms nearly him. It was painful to watch. They are still married and he no longer speaks with any of us.

Okay, Somebody Go This Groom To Shut His Mouth

He announced that "they were knocked up, YAH!" to everyone without her even in the room.

Then watching them, also the ceremony itself, I don't think they even said a discussion to each other the entire dark. They obviously sat together at dinner but talked to all the "friends" around them.

Then there was no first trip the light fantastic, someone really said, "scratch this first dance, lets party" so like 3 people poured onto the dance flooring.

Information technology was terrible.

Just Something To Take The Border Off…

Outdoor ceremony and reception in a barn type thing. The bride was clearly out of it during the ceremony. Just had a happy, dopey, conceited expect on her face up while the government minister was talking. And so she came to taste the forbidden Mary Jane with her old friends throughout the reception. Groom never liked it. Information technology was like she was disappearing from him. They separate eight months later. Expensive fault, simply the food was expert.

He'due south Only Kidding… Right?

At the later-dinner… the groom was asked why they got married… he said, "well, tax season is coming up."

This Seems Super, Duper Extra

A friend of mine got married to a daughter he'd met on a Christian dating site after knowing her for but a month. She also lived 200 miles from him, so they really hadn't gotten to know each other.

My friend has been a church-goer all his life, but he'south not a crazy evangelist or anything. It'southward only a nice, boring Presbyterian church.

Anyway, the hymeneals was at the helpmate's church. I tin can't remember the proper name, but information technology was a minor, country church building out in the Midwestern corn fields.

In the church, we sat, as usual, friends of the bride on one side of the aisle, friends of the groom on the other.

The ceremony began and all went well for a fourth dimension, until, during the government minister's prayer, the bride became overwhelmed with the Holy Spirit. She closed her optics, raised her easily in the air and began speaking in tongues.

This caused almost of the people on the helpmate'south side of the aisle to go similarly taken with the spirit, and they began standing and waving their artillery and speaking in tongues.

This Is The Worst Kind Of Bridezilla

I went to a wedding for my wife's coworker. She took her sugariness time getting gear up and made everyone wait an hour to walk down the aisle. It was her perfect 24-hour interval for the sake of it being her perfect mean solar day. She wasn't in love and simply wanted to get married. Everyone there knew it. Fifty-fifty the mother of the helpmate made comments like; "well, it's the Jackie show." Implying that it wasn't really almost the marriage. My wife and I predicted information technology would last 6 months. It turns out we were right. She was "very upset" her husband was cheating on her but the entire time she was cheating on him. Just a sham and completely pointless event.

So, None Of That Lovely-Dovey Stuff Was Real

They were over-the-superlative clingy to each other. Not like a normal couple that has a special twenty-four hour period, merely more, "wait at how much we are in love. Really. Totally in dear. Absolutely. Tin can you tell?" I had known them for a few years already and it was definitely off. I later constitute out that he had laid down "rules" for the marriage the twenty-four hours before, and she had been thinking of running during the whole anniversary merely was also afraid of him. He became a existent piece of piece of work shortly afterward, beat her up, caused a miscarriage and divorced her later on spending all the money they had been given for the wedding.

Oh, The Wisdom Of Our Elders

At my best friend's wedding, the groom'south dad was dropping some things off at the church. Merely to make pocket-size talk, I said: "Bob, are you lot ready for the big day?" He said, "Well, yous know what they say, anybody'south gotta have a offset wife."

Did Anybody Forget Whose Special Day It Was?

At the reception, the groom spent the whole time going around with his mother and the bride was sitting alone. My friend grouping went to hang out with her for a while, but we had to go out early to get dwelling house (long drive) and I don't call up anyone else paid much attention to her after that. They separated after 2 months.

Dear, It Volition Always Be Too Soon For That Story

A bridesmaid got up and told a "funny" story almost how the helpmate lived with some other guy during a break from the groom.

Something Only Feels Off…

Everything was stilted.

The decor was beautiful, the wedding political party was dressed to a tee, bride and groom both happy-cried during the vows, there was a limo service, reception had an crawly dinner and brusque speeches.

But it all felt similar it was scripted that fashion. About like watching a pic wedding rather than a real i. Don't really know how to identify exactly what was off, but I remember in that location was but something virtually the helpmate and groom, like they were acting.

I Would Have Called Off The Wedding Right There

My cousin's presently-to-be-hubby was more concerned with perfect wedding ceremony day photos than her grandmother. Her grandmother was 90 years old, walked only with assist, and was having trouble getting to the spot where everyone was continuing for the wedding lensman. While my cousin, dress and all, is trying to get her grandma over to stand up with everyone else, her groom is screaming to only, "Forget her! Forget her! Nosotros WON'T Have PERFECT LIGHTING IF We WAIT FOR HER!"

My cousin is a very family-oriented person and it mortified her, specially because, in her words, he had never yelled at her before. Mortified her worse considering they did accept pictures without her grandmother, who died a few months later.

He's A Lilliputian As well Proud Of His 'Grab'

While celebrating their appointment with everyone, the groom got tipsy and started talking all possessive about his bride. Like this is how you go along a woman. When you meet a woman similar her you gotta lock it down fast with a ring, like it'southward a cage or something. Pretty obvious red flag, only she was determined.

Talk About Cold Shoulders

Yeah, the bride spent well-nigh of her day hanging with her family and the groom spent most of his mean solar day with his. At that place was very piffling mingling. In fact, the just interaction I had was to shake his hand at the very end of the reception and wish them skillful luck. He shrugged at me.

So What I'm Hearing Is That She'due south A Priss

Was earlier the wedding, but I saw the bride mutter about how "cheap" he was for proposing with his grandmothers ring instead of buying her a new ane. According to her, she said yes, but he "amend actually buy her a band" before the ceremony.

Oh Yes, That's Definitely A Red Flag

This isn't really something I noticed off-paw… it was actually blatant, just I was the but ane who saw. I witnessed the very tail -end of an argument where she grabbed the half-finished cocktail out of his paw and smashed the glass confronting the side of the building.

All He Wanted To Exercise Was Mingle

Concluding summer, my and then-fiancé and I went to his cousin's nuptials. The groom (cousin) was very happy, positively beaming during the ceremony, the bride marched her wedding party up the aisle with a sour expect. It was bizarre.

After the anniversary, the helpmate was micromanaging the photos, the welcome drinks, the catering, and when the speeches concluded (before the food) she stood up and said she wouldn't be a traditional woman and she wanted to do a voice communication. She didn't accept a oral communication. Whatever she said was not memorable. She ran to the buffet, so drank heavily with her bridesmaids. Afterward food, she and her husband walked around to talk to all the guests. She was determined to get around everyone whereas he wanted to linger and conversation, so she literally dragged him around later on a "Hi, how are you, nice to see you, bye!" As the music started, she was with the bridesmaids watching the empty dance floor, he was at the bar with the groomsmen. He wasn't smiling anymore.

If You've Accumulated That Many Meltdowns…

A lifelong friend was getting married. The normal traditional wedding where the helpmate and groom don't see each other on the wedding twenty-four hour period leading up to the ceremony. The bride comes dorsum to the house where he'due south staying and has a full meltdown over something stupid. They are yelling at each other through the sleeping accommodation door since he's non allowed to see her… this was i of many meltdowns she had during the fourth dimension they dated.

Yes, This Is A Crusade For Concern

From the get-go, she wasn't actually involved or excited about the wedding plans. She just didn't care. The groom planned most of the nuptials which was at a mountain resort across the state (her home country). It wasn't an easy wedding to get to. His friends and family had a long flying and and so collection three hours to get there.

They were doing pictures before the anniversary and the helpmate disappeared into the woods. No one could find her for about an hour. People started to panic. The groom was thinking he'd take to call information technology off. He was planning a speech communication. Finally, the wife of the best human tracks her down. The bride is crying and we all assumed information technology was cold feet. The wife of the best homo said, "Don't marry him if yous're non certain, who cares what people call back. It's not fair to him!" Simply the bride shook her off. After all, anybody fabricated such an attempt to be there she didn't desire to disappoint people.

And so they went through with it. Most everyone close to the groom (including the groom) knew they should not take married. But it was like being on a train at full speed and non being able to become off.

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